Yesterday I came across this article,
ksl.com - Confronting a snap-judgment society
I loved this article!  I do this all the time!  More than the average person.  I am a judg-er.  I have tried for quite awhile now to stop, because I know there are plenty of situations where I do something stupid, regret it the second I do it, & just hope that people realize that I know my mistake.  
I am the worst at judging when I am on the road.  I did my routine drive from Santaquin to Bountiful today. (a good 1 hour & 15 minute drive) I noticed myself judging most cars around me!  Mostly the vehicle that cut me off, almost causing an accident.  I stereotyped this to be an aggressive teen driver in daddy's car. (I had a whole story, & picture of him in my mind)  In the end it was a cute elderly man & his lady friend.  I was so mad at myself.  But glad that I caught myself in action.
The other day I pulled out in front of a vehicle thinking that my car had the guts to get me quickly out of the way.  I overestimated my Rav4.  Luckily the car slowed down for me, & did not honk (like I imagine I would).
 So as my own personal goal I will start with trying not to snap-judge other drivers, who have probably been in less accidents than I.
 
 
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This is something I am consistently working on!!
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